Narcissism is like a plague populating our social and family circles. Narcissism does not refer to the healthy love each one of us have for their own selves in terms of taking care of our well being, maintaining our appearance, aim for good looks or trying to achieve our own success in any endeavor.
Narcissism as a personality disorder refers rather to the unaware behavior of those concerned only with their own sense of power and manipulations to USE circumstances or people for their own selfish and insensitive agenda which includes always to compete, to take the most advantage and be in control regardless of any caring attachment.
Narcissists disregard anyone’s feelings but their own, they seem incapable to say sorry when they are due to do so and extremely ruthless towards others faults. In their inability of taking any slight measure of criticism, narcissists will terminate the most intimate of relationships in a cruel and sharp manner rather than making any effort to correct their flaws which in their eyes aren’t any. On the other hand, narcissists can be very critical and demoralizing or even abusive toward other people’s weaknesses or plain normal sensitive feelings.
I found this test online. It is not the law but It may help to recognize whether we, or anyone we are relating to, have this disease and hopefully improve our relationships or any narcissistic tendencies we may have. No one is perfect, the point is to be willing to admit our flaws and grow to leave those toxic relationships traits behind.
Click on the eyes to take the test and be honest to yourself:
Seek an you will find… the need to re-educate our minds to the correct thought processes and the vibrations that it creates is not a laughing matter. Our minds contain the power to destroy or create our very own circumstances; if there is a switch to pull, I need to find where it is and what to do with it; don’t you?. Clicking on the image of dear worried Marilyn, will take you to an step by step instruction video of what must be learnt and how to get it ON. Thought Vibations
We all get there when so overwhelmed by the amount of information that we tap in on a daily basis seem to suck out all our genuine ideas…they call it Creativity Block and I found the advice on this video really helpful and by my own experiences, True!
‘Love, Reality, and the Time of Transition’
This video got my brain really shewing and spinning as I admit, I am one of those lovers of the “love&light” view who feeling powerless to make any difference in the world system as it is, choose to focus on the positives ignoring news of the dark side where people is being killed, children dying from hunger and idiots and psychopaths ruling our world. What else can I do but share this message on my blog and perhaps with my friends on social networks? well, if that is my grain of sand contribution to the awakening of someone, anyone, then that is what I do. It is a whopping 1.17 hour video which I got to watch over two nights…
At some stages it got me annoyed to be disturbed from my Pollyanna bubble and re-considered if whether this was just another boycott from the religious to the work done with the help of the many amazing gurus who I have learned from on growing in the search of knowledge as to how improve myself and manifest the life that I want to choose to create but…I watched it to the end anyhow, to conclude that all perspectives are valid in that search and I must listen to all voices…This is a message from our world’s shadow, raising the issues that are really going on if not in our immediate environment, in our world as a large community; a message not to be ignored… and so the message is loud and clear: lets not fall sleep! when the moment comes, and it will come, there will be room to action and one must to be ready for the changes ahead because they are not only happening at some point but they will need our full support, from us! the ones who believe ourselves to be AWAKENED…..and if you are reading this and interested, you are!